Author: TechyDad
Resolution Conclusion
Last year, I made a series of New Year’s resolutions. Let’s see how they panned out, shall we?
Sort My Photos
I had a LOT of photos to sort through. They were all jumbled in an “unsorted” folder and stuck in the (partially date stamped) folder that the camera assigned them. It took a lot of time, but I finally sorted every last photo from 2011… and then promptly fell behind in sorting the ones from 2012. Luckily, however, I spent some time on those and now have every last photo sorted.
Improve FollowerHQ
You’ve checked out my Twitter follower management website, right? If the answer is yes, then thank you. If the answer is no, then get thee to FollowerHQ! It will let you see who is following you that you aren’t following back. Then you can decide whether you want to follow those people back or not.
I had a bunch of ideas to improve it, but couldn’t find the time to work on them. I would do a bit of work here and there, but things always seemed to get in the way. My latest effort was my best one, though. Spurred on by some big Twitter API changes, I’ve come up with a pretty radical alteration to FollowerHQ. I’m tentatively calling it FollowerHQ Version 2 (because I’m just that awesome at naming things).
I did a ton of work on it, but have recently gotten side tracked. I had a good excuse, though. I was invited by Disney to preview their New Fantasyland. (See the ongoing posts at that link.) Now, I’ve just got to pick up where I left off, get it ready for beta testing, and then get it ready for release. (If you are interested in beta testing, let me know in the comments or on Twitter.)
Promote Blog Posts
At the time of my resolution, my only promotion of my tweets was an automated “Hey, this post is now live” tweet. After that, I relied on remembering to tweet about it. That is to say, I never tweeted about it. You can write the best blog post in the world, but if nobody knows about it, does it matter? Now, I could spend every second of the day promoting my many posts and doing by best to drive traffic to my blog… except that I have a day job. I can’t spend all day promoting blog posts when I have day job work to do. I can’t spend all night promoting blog posts either because I have to work on new posts as well as make dinner, clean up, organize photos, etc.
The solution? I found a WordPress plugin called Tweet Old Posts. It did just what it sounds like. At an interval specified by me it would take an old blog post of mine (how old is up to you, I set mine at 2 weeks) and tweet it out. It took some minor fiddling with the settings to find the sweet spot of “too much tweeting” and “almost never tweeting”, but I’m happy with the result. No, it’s not a hand-crafted promotion, but it’s the best I’m going to get given my limited time.
Cook More
On one hand, I love cooking. Spending time in the kitchen turning a bunch of raw ingredients into a delicious dish. On the other hand, I hate cooking. Especially when I’m tired from work, put in a lot of effort to cook a meal, and then hear a rousing chorus of “Ewwww…. I don’t want that…. I don’t eat that… I want something else!” Nothing punctures my Will To Cook faster than the prospect of making one meal for B and me, one meal for NHL, and one meal for JSL. If I’m going to do this, I might as well toss some food in the microwave and hit the buttons to get dinner ready. Why bother doing more just to hear how nobody likes the food? Especially when I can hear about how great a cook I am when I toss frozen chicken on a paper plate and heat it in the microwave for 3:30.
I’ve had my cooking moments, though. The weekends have been taken over by making eggs, toast, and “fakin’ bacon” (soy bacon – we’re Kosher in the house) for breakfast. It’s a simple thing, but so much nicer than cold cereal or pop tarts. NHL has been getting more adventurous with his eating too. Now, if I could just lure JSL away from the “I don’t eat anything different than the things I’ve always eaten” camp.
Give B More Breaks
I’ve had quite a few Just The Boys days. We’ve gone to parks, museums, restaurants, and more. They love spending time with me and I love spending time with them. It is a refreshing change from the usual times I see them during weekdays (before going to work when I’m in a rush to get out the door and after coming home when I’m tired and not looking forward to the nightly fight over dinner. About the only reason that I’d say I haven’t done this enough is that I can never spend too much time with my boys!
More Date Nights
We’ve gotten a few nights out alone. We’ve even had a trip to Disney World where we (*gasp*) didn’t bring the kids! In the case of the former, it’s great to get out so it is just the two of us. In the case of the latter, it was great to not only have a few days where we didn’t need to worry about the kids, but it was nice being able to decide what to do in Disney World ourselves instead of catering to the boys. We could walk for longer, ride rides that we wanted to go on, and go sightseeing in a way that would have led to a pair of very cranky kids. We returned home exhausted, but also refreshed. Yes, we love our kids more than anything, but it is good to get away from them from time to time as well.
How did you do with your 2012 resolutions?
Altered Plans Equals Turbulence
This weekend, we were supposed to go to my parents’ house. Living over 3 hours away from them means that I don’t get to see them often and I’ve been looking forward to it. As the trip approached, various circumstances kept threatening to cancel our trip. Finally, on the day before we were supposed to leave, B wasn’t feeling good. She definitely wasn’t up to making the trip. To make matters worse, another storm was bearing down on my parents’ house. It looked like, even if I went with the boys, we would be just sitting around my parents’ house for a couple of days. Reluctantly, I called my parents and they agreed we should reschedule.
Luckily, I took this change of plans completely in stride. If you define "completely in stride", as "acted as a ‘just me’ and moped about the altered plans."
Those who have dealt with people with Asperger’s know that we can get attached to our plans. Change them and you risk a melt down. I didn’t exactly "melt down" on the outside, but I was going nuclear on the inside. I’ll admit that I was silently blaming B, the Universe, everyone and everything for not caring about me and keeping the plans that I wanted to do.
In my more calm state, I can appreciate that this is *exactly* the sort of thing that NHL screams when plans he holds dear are changed. This is the sort of thing that we are always working with NHL to help him handle better. Mind you, I didn’t vocalize any of this. I’ve long since learned to internalize these thoughts so I don’t hurt anyone when my mind lashes out. I even snuck upstairs for a bit to have some moping time to myself so any mutterings weren’t overheard and so I could calm myself down. Still, it’s clear that I need some work on taking my own advice.
In the end, the storm my parents were supposed to have came to our house instead. (An additional 4 inches at least – probably more.) It took a day or so, but I calmed down and gained perspective. I even had a bunch of fun moments with the boys while B recuperated. (More on that in later posts.)
All in all, it was a fun way to end 2012. Here’s hoping that 2013 is just as fun (though a bit less turbulence would be appreciated).
Aloha Friday: Ending 2012
I don’t know how it is possible, but 2012 is coming to an end. It seems that the year just flew by. It seemed like every month had barely begun before we were saying good-bye to it and hello to the next. As soon as Spring arrived, it seemed like Summer was knocking on the door. No sooner had Summer settled in than Fall arrived. Finally, before Fall could unpack its bags, Winter barged in and took over.
So now 2012 is drawing to a close. I just hope that 2013 isn’t in the rush that 2012 seemed to be in.
My Aloha Friday question for today is: Did 2012 seem to fly by way too quickly for you?
P.S. If you haven’t already, try out my Twitter applications: FollowerHQ and Rout.
Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the linky there if you are participating.
Aloha #170
JibJab’s Year In Review
Last Friday, at the end of my post, I tried to embed JibJab’s Year In Review video. Sadly, something went wrong and the video didn’t embed. Oddly, I didn’t notice it until just now (which, as I write this post, would be Wednesday night). So instead of going back and fixing the old post, I’m going to just embed it here.
Just a fair warning. The last time I watched this, my brain locked on the song and wouldn’t let go. I was up half the night with the tune playing over and over. (Then again, my brain tends to do that sort of thing from time to time so it might just be me.)
And now, baring another embed failure, here is the JibJab Year In Review: