Aloha Friday: When You Can’t Share

zipper-mouthI have some really big news.  Huge.  This news is so big that it has rattled my very idea of who I am.  I want to shout this news from the rooftops, tweet up a storm, and dedicate a fifty part blog series about it.  There’s only one problem: We’re not ready to blog about it just yet.

You see, this news affects the kids as well and, until some things are settled, we’re not going to publicly discuss it just yet.  So, until then, I need to keep quiet.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: Do you manage well with big news that you can’t yet share?

P.S. If you haven’t already, try out my Twitter applications: FollowerHQ and Rout.

Disclaimer: The "zipped mouth" image above is a compilation of "Zipper" by Deluge and "Emoticons: Worried Face" by nicubunu.  Both are available through OpenClipArt.org.


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the linky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #158

Distractions

As I sit here trying to come up with a blog post, I find myself fending off distraction after distraction.  First, there was my Google Reader – flush with blog posts that I didn’t check over Rosh Hashana.  There were hundreds of blog posts, deals, comic strips, and more to check out.

After I put that aside, Twitter beckoned.  I suddenly felt the need to see what everyone else was doing.  Were people still talking about NickMoms and copyright?  Did someone post a funny link or an insightful article?  I was offline for two days for Rosh Hashana and then was very busy during the day catching up with work so I needed my social media fix.  (Hey, I’m not an addict.  I can quit any time I want… I just don’t want to.)

With my inner social media junkie satisfied, I got down to the serious business of a blog post.  That is, until I felt the lure of my smartphone.  Specifically, Where’s My Water – my new Smartphone gaming addiction.  How could I blog when Swampy just needed me to guide water into his tub.  Just one more level and I’ll write my post.  Ok, that was kind of easy so maybe that didn’t count.  One more level.  Ooh, I wonder what level comes next…. What?  Oh, right.  The blog post.

So here I am.  All my distractions have been shaken off and I can finally get down to the serious business of writing my blog po… Oooh. Doctor Who on Netflix!

What tends to distract you?

Aloha Friday: Time To Post

I typically write blog posts the night before they go live.  With making and cleaning up from dinner, getting the kids in bed, freelance work and chores that need to be done around the house, though, I often don’t have much time to write posts.  Not unless I want to go to sleep at 1am.  I would love to spend hours crafting a perfect post, complete with a photo/clipart on every post to accommodate services like Pinterest, but I honestly don’t have the time.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: How much time do you spend on each blog post?

P.S. If you haven’t already, try out my Twitter applications: FollowerHQ and Rout.


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the linky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #145

How To Deal With A Content Thief

It is almost inevitable if you put content online.  At one point or another, someone will steal it.  Sometimes, it is someone stealing your words and claiming they are your own.  Sometimes, it is a company taking the photo you posted, stripping any watermark off of it, and using it for their brochure.  Usually these people will claim "the web is considered ‘public domain’" – a total falsehood.

In my mind, though, the most annoying content thieves are the spammer/scrappers.  These people troll the Internet looking for content to grab.  They gobble it up and repost it on their own sites/blogs with varying levels of attribution.  They use this content to gain Google ranking so that either 1) they get more money from ads, 2) their links to other sites get better ranking, and/or 3) their domain name becomes more valuable when they sell it.

While they are grabbing your content, they are doing much more damage than simple copyright infringement.  The duplicate text could not only help the thieves raise their Google ranking, but could also drag yours down.  In most of these cases, you are powerless to actually get the content removed.  You can send a cease and desist notice, mentioning that the copying is a DMCA violation that can result in a $750 – $150,000 fine per infringement.

Sadly, there are some content thieves who are stationed overseas and either ignore or laugh off any legal threats.  When you encounter a situation like this, you can’t do anything.

Well, unless they hotlink your photos.

Like the thieves we discovered on Sunday who stole B’s entire blog post.

Then, you can replace the photos with something "fun."

It’s a simple matter of editing your ".htaccess" file.  This file is very powerful and can tell the web server just who to allow to access content and who not to allow.  You can prevent hot-linking altogether, but I wouldn’t recommend this.  Blocking all hot-linking might make your posts show incorrect images when they are linked to on Pinterest, Facebook, and/or Google+.

However, if you know that EvilContentThief.com has put your post online, you can put this code in your .htaccess file:

# BEGIN BLOCK SPAMMER HOTLINK
RewriteEngine On
RewriteCond %{HTTP_REFERER} ^http://(www\.)?EvilContentThief.com/ [NC]
RewriteRule \.(jpg|jpeg|gif|bmp|png)$
http://mysite.com/thief.jpe [NC,R,L]
# END BLOCK SPAMMER HOTLINK

This basically says that any images being requested by EvilContentThief.com will be replaced with "do-not-steal.jpe".  (Note: It isn’t ".jpg" because all jpg files will be blocked.)  With this code in place, the following image, when linked to from EvilContentThief.com:

anniversary

will look like this:

dmca-techydad

Of course, that link could contain anything, not just a bunch of text.  You could put a shot of an angry face, someone collating papers, or even something highly crude.

Will this get your content taken down?  No, it won’t.  But at least you will get the satisfaction of seeing the thief’s site "defaced" with your message proclaiming to all that stumble upon them that this site is a dirty, rotten content thief.

The No Blog Post Post

There will be no blog post today.

Ok, there’s this one.  So I guess there *is* a blog post today.  But this one doesn’t count.

There’s been a lot of stress in my life recently.  I’ve been feeling like I need to be running at top speed 100% of the time just to keep from losing ground.  Check that.  I run at top speed 100% of the time and *STILL* lose ground.  What doesn’t help is that, at times of extreme stress like this, my brain reacts by shutting down.  I’ll need some serious decompression.  I’m craving it right now.

So, as I write this the night before you are reading it, I’m not feeling motivated to write a proper blog post.  Rather than rooting through photos to pull together an image-laden blog post followed by a 1am bedtime, I’m going to let my mind vegetate a bit.  I’m going to load up Lego Batman on the Nintendo DS and break some blocks.  (Surprising how therapeutic smashing virtual scenery is.)  Then, I’ll try to get to bed early.

Hopefully, this combination will let me release some stress so my brain will unfreeze and I can blog properly again.

Update: As I tried to post this, I encountered server problems. Forget the DS, I’m going right to bed!

How do you react to too much stress?

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