The #DisneySMMoms Report: Speakers and Lessons

Note: To see all of my posts on DisneySMMoms 2012, go here.

After we ate breakfast on Friday morning, it was time to learn a few lessons in social media.  First, we moved to another room.  This wasn’t your standard conference room.  After all, it’s not every room that has a castle for a stage and inspirational stained glass scattered along the walls.

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There were also these great centerpieces.

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Power strips.  Just the thing for the on-the-go blogger with limited battery life.

Once we got settled, the speakers started coming out.

Meg Crofton, President of Walt Disney World Resort let us know that Disney World isn’t in the "vacation" business or the "theme park" business.  They are in the experience business.  They want every moment from the minute you get on the Magical Express to the minute you leave Disney World for the last time to be filled with magic.  (And they succeed many times over.)

Maryellen Hooper came on stage at various times both to introduce the next speaker and to induce fits of laughter in the crowd.  Yes, though her jokes were mom-based, this dad laughed just as much as the moms in the audience.

Kelly Ripa and Katie Couric were there as well.  Ok, they had pre-recorded messages for us, but that was good enough for us.

Amy Jo Martin talked to us about balancing work and family time.  She was told to choose two out of Work, Family, and Self.  She chose all three and, though she failed many times, she never gave up.

Ramon DeLeon came onstage with incredible energy.  If he ever gives up the pizza gig, he could probably sell DeLeon Energy Drinks!  He gave us example after example of how social media can be used to positively impact people’s lives.  He also reminded us that a problem that is solved offline isn’t solved if it was described online.  Others will see the "unsolved" problem and assume nothing’s been done.  It’s not so much the bad experiences that will turn people away, he told us, but bad reactions (or no reaction) top bad experiences.

Gary Buchanan came onstage dressed as a Jedi to tell us about Star Wars weekends at Disney World.  One year, I really want to head to Disney World during this wonderfully geeky time.  Unfortunately, Gary also insulted a certain Sith.

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He was ok, but I don’t think he’ll be insulting Darth again.

After lunch (photos coming Wednesday), we came back to mice on our table.  The good kind, of course.

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As we settled in, the speakers just kept on coming.  First up was Peter Shankman.  He told us not to wait for others’ approvals, to face our fears, leave our comfort zone, and to be like a weed.  The first is a lesson that I learned long ago when I dealt with bullying.  The second and third I took to heart and led to my Face My Fears Disney Challenge.  (More on that in a later post.)  The last item pointed out that weeds are masters of survival.  They’ve learned how to do everything except grow a rose (aka "be like everyone else").

Lisa Druxman quoted Henry Ford and said "whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right."  She told us to break big projects up into smaller pieces.  Most importantly, she told us that there will often be a gremlin sitting on our shoulder telling us that we can’t do something.  When that happens, we need to knock it off our shoulder and continue on.

I realized that my gremlin is High School Me.  No matter what I do, I maintain a mental self-image of myself as a shy high-school kid who is terrified of how people will negatively react to me.  High School Me couldn’t do half of the things that I do today and so, mentally, I’ll keep telling myself that I really can’t do these things either.  I’m going to start knocking High School Me off my shoulder.  He may have been me once, but he isn’t anymore and hasn’t been for awhile.

Finally, Chris Brogan reminded us of how important it is to have your site be mobile friendly.  As a new owner of a smartphone, I’m finding a lot of sites that aren’t mobile friendly.  Nothing’s more frustrating than loading up a site on your phone and being presenting with itty bitty text that can’t be resized to be readable or obscured text because the developers assumed that everyone only uses huge monitors.  (He also asked who isn’t on Pinterest and I was the only one to raise my hand.  I think that’s another post right there.)

As the sessions ended, it was time to head out to Animal Kingdom.  DInosaurs awaited us there.

Disclaimer: We paid for our own trip to Disney World to attend the Disney Social Media Moms Celebration. Though we were given an incredible deal from Disney, they never asked us to blog about this event. All opinions expressed above are my own.

DDOS Suspension

I’m going to take a break from Disney posts to make note of something that happened early last week.  On Monday night, April 30th, I opened up Windows Live Writer to quickly post from Disney.  As I hit Publish, Live Writer told me that there was a problem publishing my post.  At first, I figured I did something wrong.  I loaded up my website and saw a terrifying message: Account Suspended.

My mind began to race.  My sites were down.  All of them.  TechyDad.com, TheAngelForever.com, FollowerHQ.com.  All down.  And not just down, but proclaiming to the world that we were suspended.  A quick call to my host later and our accounts were restored to full access with the explanation that a page on our sites had caused undue strain on the server.

Let’s put aside for a moment the suspension reaction… I’m dealing with them on how better to react.  In fact, a similar problem a couple of days ago resulted in my sites being taken down with an error message for a few minutes – a much better solution.

Back to the strain, though.  When I got back home, I loaded up the log files.  Now, a typical log file, for a single view of one page, will contain multiple entries.  After all, as you’re reading this, you’re likely seeing images, there are colors and text styling via CSS files, JavaScript files and more.  This is part of what I saw in B’s log file:

46.137.130.60 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:03 -0400] "GET /2012/04/a-floral-splash-of-color/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.71.213 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:03 -0400] "GET /2012/04/dole-whip-cravings/ HTTP/1.1"
79.125.64.99 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:03 -0400] "GET /2012/04/the-cupcake-club-book-giveaway/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.130.60 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:05 -0400] "GET /2012/02/falling-in-love-with-disney/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.130.60 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:03 -0400] "GET /2012/04/selecting-phone-sounds/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.131.104 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:04 -0400] "GET /2012/04/views-from-a-friends-birthday-party/ HTTP/1.1"
79.125.88.69 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:06 -0400] "GET /2012/04/time-for-ubp-2012/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.130.60 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:06 -0400] "GET /2012/04/photo-gifts-for-mothers-day/ HTTP/1.1"
46.137.131.104 - - [30/Apr/2012:13:21:05 -0400] "GET /2012/04/disney-natures-chimpanzee/ HTTP/1.1"

As you can see, these were requests for only the HTML code of the pages. No CSS, images, or JavaScript downloaded. Just repeated calls to pages on TheAngelForever.com.  Different IP addresses were used, but they all seemed to originate from Amazon Web Services in Dublin, Ireland.

So what happened?  I have two theories.  The first is that a content scraper was trying to pull all of B’s content via an Amazon Web Services hosted script.  Something went wrong and it made so many requests so quickly that it bombed the site out.  The second is that the person behind the script didn’t care about content and the rapid requests/site bombing was by design.  In this scenario, our mystery script runner isn’t a scraper, but instead launched a DDOS attack on TheAngelForever.com.

(Quick explanation for those who don’t know what a DDOS attack is.  A DDOS, or Distributed Denial of Service, attack is when a group of computers request so many services from a server that valid visitors can’t get through.  To use an analogy, imagine a restaurant that thrives on delivery orders.  Now suppose a group of people (thus "distributed") repeatedly call the restaurant’s phone and hang up.  If they do this often enough, valid would-be customers can’t get through (i.e. "denial of service").

Stopping a DDOS attack is tricky.  We can’t block the attacker because they are coming from so many IP addresses.  You can block a group of IP addresses (e.g. 46.137.*), but then you might be blocking a lot of valid users.

So how can we keep this from happening again?  There are some network tools that our hosting provider can employ, but not much B and I can do.  It might happen again tomorrow or it might never happen again at all.  So if you ever see that message again, just be patient (and perhaps tweet me) because the site will be back soon.

This Post Has Been Delayed

Yesterday was really crazy.  Like tear your hair out, wish you could dramatically throw a lamp across the room crazy.  Hopefully, I’ll have a better blog post later.  For now, here are two photos from the Wild Africa Trek I took on Saturday.  One is of a crocodile under the bridge we had to cross.  The other is of another croc in the same area (but taken from the ground).

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Blame the Matzoh

blame-matzoh I don’t have a proper post ready for today.  Yes, there’s this, but I don’t consider it a “proper post.”  B and I have been wiped out since Thursday (if not earlier).  You see, all that cleaning took a toll.  Then, after finishing up some cleaning on Friday, I took the Passover items down from the attic.  Then, B and I cooked for the Passover Seder.  Then, the next day, we picked up a few remaining items we felt we needed before having a second Seder that night.

I was supposed to go to temple on Saturday morning and Sunday morning, but couldn’t drag myself out of bed on Saturday.  Honestly, I was surprised that I got there on Sunday.

JSL, meanwhile, has had an awful Passover.  All of his favorite foods (macaroni and cheese, “chocolate drink” – a protein drink he loves having for breakfast, pizza, grilled cheese) aren’t Kosher for Passover.  Sure, you can make Matzoh pizza and you can melt cheese on Matzoh, but it isn’t the same.  We gave him fish sticks (shaped like actual fish – more or less) last night, but he complained the whole time and went to bed hungry.  The happiest I’ve seen him eating was when 1) he was eating melon and 2) he was eating Passover cookies and brownies at temple with me.  (JSL: “This is my bestest day EVER because I get to eat a lot of chocolate!”)

As for NHL, he’s doing fine.  He’s found out that he loves gefilte fish (though not horseradish) and he already knew that he loves hard boiled eggs.  He even tried, loved, and devoured my quinoa pilaf.  His dietary needs are being met.

I’ll try to fight off the Matzoh-carb-sleepiness tonight to get a proper post ready for tomorrow.  If none appears, though, the Matzoh got me.

Passover Busy-ness

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This coming week is going to be a busy one.  You see, Passover is coming.  Some Jewish holidays are easy affairs.  Chanukah just requires a menorah, some candles, and perhaps a dreidel.  Purim is a fun affair involving costumes, triangle-shaped cookies, and noise makers.  However, Passover is anything but easy.

There are many rules about what can and can’t be eaten during Passover and, of course, different people observe different things.  For me, we essentially need to buy only products that are specially marked as Kosher for Passover (with the exception of fresh fruits and vegetables).  There is a general prohibition on any leavened product, so that means no bread.  It also means all cookies, cake, tortillas, waffles, pancakes, cereal, etc. are forbidden.

Of course, I don’t just take out the Passover food, cook it with our usual pots and pans and place it on our usual plates.  Before Passover begins, I need to clean the kitchen and dining room to remove all crumbs.  I need to put away all non-Passover pots, pans, plates and utensils and take out our Passover ones.  I need to clean the fridge, oven, stove, sink, microwave, and dishwasher.  (Luckily, that last one is pretty self-cleaning.)  I also need to make room in the cabinets for Passover items.

In short, there’s a lot of work to do and very little time to do it in.  Thus, while I’ll try to post a few times this week, you’ll forgive me if I take a few days off.  Rest assured that I’m not just slacking off.  I’ll just be very busy getting ready for Passover.

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