Aloha Friday: A Holiday of Exhaustion and Stress, A Payoff of Pride

As I mentioned previously, I had a lot of cleaning to do before Passover.  The good news is that I got the cleaning done.  The bad news is that it came with a ton of stress.

Growing up, I remember my mother cleaning for Passover.  She would tear apart the entire kitchen, cleaning every cabinet and drawer even if we weren’t using them for the holiday.  The process took about a week and was completely exhausting.  (It didn’t help that my father, my sister and I didn’t help.  Bad younger me!)

Even though I don’t do the intense cleaning that she does and even though I made a checklist a few years back to help organize the process, it still is tiring work.

Then came the Seders.  I like going to B’s aunt’s Seders.  We get to see family and it means I don’t have to cook two meals just after a tiring cleaning session.  On the other hand, the Seders tend to run long.  We left the first Seder at 11:30pm (before it was completely over) and the second after midnight (again, before it was over).  The kids, somehow, stayed awake until after midnight each time.

Add in a bad sore throat that brought back memories of my New Year’s Day bout with strep (and therefore a trip to the doctor’s office to rule it out) and you can see why I’ve been feeling especially stressed out.

And yet, amid the stress and exhaustion, there were moments of joy.  Playing with my boys, spending time with them, and seeing them spend time playing with relatives.  But, perhaps best of all was seeing NHL at the Seder.  He loved singing Ma Nishtana (the Four Questions).  Perhaps he didn’t get all the words right, but he tried his best and enjoyed it.

Then, when it came time for responsive reading (which passes from person to person), he declined.  He didn’t want to read just any passage, he wanted to read the names of the 10 plagues.  During this, we dip our fingers in our wine glasses and leave a drop on our plates for each plague.  The symbolism here is that, in Judaism, wine represents joy.  Though we are happy to be free, our joy is diminished by the realization that people were injured/killed in the process of the exodus from Egypt.  As our joy is diminished, so our wine is diminished.

Noah, perhaps, doesn’t fully grasp the significance of this passage, but he realized it was important.  That was enough for him.  He wanted to do something important during the Seder and that filled me with pride!

My Aloha Friday question for today is twofold: Do you find holidays to be stressful and/or exhausting?  Also, what do you enjoy most about celebrating holidays with your children?


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the McLinky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #84

The Matzah Payoff

The past couple of days has been spent deep in cleaning mode.  I cleaned off our kitchen counters, cleaned the stovetop, cleaned the oven, cleaned the sink, cleaned the fridge, cleaned the freezer, cleaned the microwave… Well, you get the idea.  With all of the cleaning done and all of the non-Kosher-For-Passover items away, it was finally time to start the Seder.

I’d report on how the Seder went, except it hasn’t happened yet as I write this.  You see, as with any Jewish holiday, I stay offline during the celebration.  Thus, this post had to be scheduled pre-Passover.  If this year’s Seder goes according to plan, we’ll have a blast with B’s family, eat lots of food, drink some wine (well, some of us will) and generally enjoy the night.  I might even have some photos to share later.

To my Jewish readers, I wish you a Happy Passover.  To my non-Jewish readers, I hope you have a few happy matzah-free days.

Aloha Friday: Cleaning, Cleaning and Some More Cleaning

This Monday night begins the Jewish holiday of Passover.  During this time, there are many dietary restrictions.  To adhere to these, I need to clean our kitchen (to prevent any “cross-contamination” between Passover foods and non-Passover foods).  This means I have a lot of cleaning ahead of me this weekend.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: Do you do any spring cleaning?


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the McLinky there if you are participating.

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Aloha #83

Aloha Friday: A Valentine’s Gift

On Monday, couples all over will celebrate Valentine’s Day.  They will surprise the ones they love with flowers, chocolate, and jewelry.  These may be the traditional Valentine’s Day gifts, but they aren’t ones I can rely on.

Flowers are nice, but B doesn’t like them.  She has said on multiple occasions that she doesn’t like watching them die.  Chocolate’s out too.  While I’m chronicling my weight loss attempt, B is also attempting to lose weight.  Giving her a large box of chocolates doesn’t seem very supportive of her efforts.  In the case of jewelry, there is a money issue.  Every time we turn around, it seems like we need to spend more money on something (the house, for instance), so it seems frivolous to toss a few hundred dollars on a piece of jewelry that B may or may not like.  (I have a bad track record with jewelry gifts.  There’s a good reason why we picked out B’s engagement ring together.)

Then again, we do have a trip to Disney World coming soon.  There are plenty of things there that could catch B’s eye.  So this year, I’ll likely get B an IOU for one gift at Disney.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: What did you get the one you love for Valentine’s Day?


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the McLinky there if you are participating.

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Aloha #74

A Hot New Year’s Day in the ER

I’d like to report that we had a blast partying 2010 away and B and I shared a kiss at midnight followed by more fun on New Year’s Day… I’d like to report that, but I can’t.

I came home from work on Thursday feeling tired and sick.  I chalked up the sick feeling to eating too much bad-for-me food at work too quickly.  The tiredness, I figured, was from staying up past midnight for too many nights in a row.  When I got home, on a whim, I took my temperature: 101.  I took some Motrin, climbed under the covers, and passed out for a few hours.  B took charge, got dinner ready for herself and the boys, and got them to bed.  I ate my dinner later, when I felt good enough to venture out of bed.

The next day, I had off work, but had planned to go in so I could use the day off another day.  With fever chills and an aching throat (which I had had for a few days but thought was due to sleeping with my mouth open), I e-mailed my boss to let him know I’d be out after all.  I spent most of Friday in bed or on the couch, keeping an eye on the boys while B ran errands to get needed items.  Our usual New Year’s Eve dinner is junk food, hors d’oeuvres, veggies and dip, etc.  B procured all the supplies she could gather but I wasn’t feeling up to engorging myself on them.  Though I kept Motrin in me, my fever never seemed to go away.  My usual remedy for sore throats, tea with honey did no good either. 

After the kids were in bed, I watched Back to the Future 2 and part of 3.  B fell asleep on the couch, but I woke her up in time to see the Times Square ball drop.  I didn’t kiss her as I didn’t want to give her whatever I had.  Instead we hugged.  Ah the romantic gesture of trying to keep your spouse from enduring the illness you have!

The first half of New Year’s Day, I spent in bed.  My fever still refused to drop, even with Motrin.  After much pestering from B, I drove myself to the ER.  (B would have driven me, but we had nobody to watch the kids and we didn’t want to expose them to the germs in the ER.)  I must digress for a moment to explain what a big deal my going to the ER was.  This was a Saturday.  On Saturdays, I celebrate Shabbat which for me means (among other things), no driving the car, no writing and no using my cell phone.  So for me to drive to the ER, fill out forms and let B know how I was doing via my cell was a big deal.  It meant that I thought this was more than just a small bug and could be something which required immediate medical intervention.

I sat in the waiting room shivering as if air conditioning was blowing right on me.  I zipped up my winter coat zipped up and put my gloves and hat on but I still felt freezing cold.  I could tell my fever was going up.  I had skipped my usual dose of Motrin so the fever wouldn’t be masked when I was seen.  Probably not the brightest idea when it came to keeping me comfortable.  Time seemed to crawl.  On the good side, I anticipated waiting and had brought a magazine.  On the negative side, I had brought a food magazine and the bright, colorful photos of different food dishes made me feel nauseous.  I closed the magazine and turned it over (the front page also featured food, of course).

The people who arrived just before me got called in so I could see that my time was nearly up.  I saw something else too.  Something by the seat of the people who just left.  I could swear it was money.  I was called a few minutes later.  As I walked into the triage room, I picked up the item.  It was a $5 bill.  I explained to the nurse that I thought the couple in the next room had dropped it.  She thanked me and brought it to them.  I heard something about being lucky and “playing the lotto.”  Perhaps it wasn’t theirs after all.  Oh well, I figured, that could be my good deed for the day.

The nurse came back, asked me a few questions about my symptoms, took my blood pressure and took my temperature.  Blood pressure was fine, but my temperature was 102.9.  Yikes.  No wonder I felt awful.  She left and a doctor came in shortly.  The doctor listened to my breathing, looked in my throat and decided that I had Strep Throat.  She decided to not do a culture and left.  After she left, I had second thoughts about not doing the culture.  When the nurse came in to give me the first dose of the medicines they were going to put me on (Penicillin to fight the infection and Lidocaine to numb my throat), I asked for the throat culture.  She came back with the appropriate swab and, after me warning her about my horrible gag reflex, expertly performed the culture.  I was told that I’d only be informed within 24 hours if the results are positive.  Of course, if the results are negative, that would be the bigger issue since I might require different medications to fully fight this illness.  (I have yet to hear back and it has been well over 24 hours now.)

I stopped by a pharmacy on the way home.  By then the shivering had passed.  Instead, I felt like my body was radiating heat.  I ditched my hat and gloves and strode out in the cold, winter air.  After getting my medication (and some hard candies to suck on to help my throat), I left the store to head home.  Once home I stripped down (sorry for the mental image everyone), climbed into bed, got comfortable the best I could and relaxed with a New Year’s Day Mythbusters marathon.  I intended to sleep, but I just couldn’t get comfortable enough.  Seeing Jamie, Adam, Grant, Kari, and Tory blow things up made me feel better though.  (Side note: I should really submit a myth I heard growing up: A shopping center behind my house installed a propane tank and everyone in the neighborhood was worried it would blow up and take out the entire neighborhood if it was struck by lightning.  I can definitely see the Mythbusters taking that on.)

By the time B got back and we got the kids into bed, I was feeling better.  My fever was down and my throat was feeling better.  I was getting occasional hot and cold flashes which led me to joke that I was going menopausal.  Sunday, I stayed fever free, slept until 10:30am (except for waking up at 7am to take my medicine) and even ventured out (somewhere other than the ER/pharmacy).  I just hope I didn’t pass it on to B, NHL or JSL.  Definitely *NOT* the way I wanted to spend my New Year’s weekend.

P.S. I had intended to start a new diet yesterday, but obviously recovery trumps diet.  I’m not going to gorge myself, but neither shall I watch my calories like a hawk.  That being said, I did do an initial weigh-in yesterday and was 204.5.  That’s a few pounds lower than I was when I weighed myself a short while ago (before falling ill).  Apparently, Strep helped me lose some weight.  I don’t recommend the Strep Throat Diet to anyone though!

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