Dad McStuffins

Doc and her dad.As I prepare for the Disney Social Media Moms celebration, I’ve been thinking of the various dads in the world of DIsney.  While there are many, one recent one stands out to me: Doc McStuffins’ dad.

Doc McStuffins is a story about a very special little girl.  She wants to be a doctor when she grows up and gets plenty of practice by fixing toys.  She doesn’t simply patch up toys, though.  Thanks to her magical stethoscope, her toys come alive.  They can walk, talk, and cuddle.

Doc’s mother is a doctor and provides much of Doc’s inspiration, but I’d like to focus on her father.  Too many times, dads on television are portrayed as dim-witted and/or unwilling to have a close relationship with their children.  Doc’s dad is neither of these.  He’s a stay-at-home dad that does the gardening and cooking.  He might not be a doctor, but he’s intelligent and loves his kids.  Whether he’s taking Doc and her brother out on a camping trip, or recognizing that Doc’s brother (who stayed up late one night) needed a nap, he provides a great Dad role-model for kids.

He might not be center stage, but then again, neither is Doc’s mom.  The main attraction is Doc and her toys.  Doc’s dad is always in the background, though, ready to lend a Doc a helping hand if she needs it.

Disclaimer: The image above is courtesy of Disney.  The opinions, however, are all my own.

Karma, Starscream Bullying and the Stolen T-Cog

Starscream_PrimeAs all parents do, I’ve tried to teach my boys right from wrong.  Of course, there are times when doing the wrong thing results in an immediate reward for the person while doing the right things results in a near-term penalty.  Young kids, being short-term thinkers, can often take the wrong path due to the short-term gain, even while knowing that it is the wrong thing to do.

To help NHL with handling this concept, I decided to introduce him to the concept of Karma.  Karma, as I explained to NHL, is the concept that good things happen to those who do good deeds and bad things happen to people who do bad things.  (Karma dates back to ancient India, but for NHL’s purposes, I relied on the modern interpretation.)  NHL seemed to understand as we ran through a few scenarios describing what would be the right and wrong thing to do.

A week or so after we spoke about it, NHL, JSL, and I were watching Transformers: Prime.  We’ve come to really like this incarnation of Transfomers and look forward to each new episode.  This two-parter, Operation Bumblebee, saw Bumblebee lose his T-Cog.  For those who didn’t watch, a T-Cog is the biomechanical organ that lets Cybertronians scan vehicles and transform.  So when MECH, a group of humans trying to make their own Transformers, knock out Bumblebee and take his T-Cog, Bumblebee finds that he can’t transform anymore.  Since transformation is so integral to what they are and since Bumblebee enjoys driving fast in his vehicle mode, this makes him feel useless to his team.

Back to Starscream, though.  We first see him arriving on the scene after Bumblebee was knocked out by MECH.  (They had both been tracking the same signal that MECH used in their trap.)  Starscream’s reaction wasn’t to help Bumblebee, but to muse "Better him than me."

After this, he follows MECH back to their headquarters and proposes an alliance.  The alliance goes well enough until Bumblebee tracks them down and tries to retrieve his T-Cog.  MECH’s troops prove no match for Bumblebee despite the robot being unable to use his weapons.  (No T-Cog means no transforming his arms into guns.)  As MECH retreats, its leader tells Starscream to bring the T-Cog.  Starscream grabs it.  He describes Bumblebee as pathetic and a failure for being unable to transform into vehicle mode.  When it looks like Bumblebee will get his T-Cog back, Starscream shoots it.  He leaves Bumblebee with one final taunt: "Time to jet.. because I can!"  (Note to non-geeks: Starscream’s vehicle mode is a jet.)

Of course, MECH isn’t happy with Starscream for losing the T-Cog.  When Starscream says they can get one soon enough from another Autobot, they zap Starscream and take his.

I intended to use this episode as a lesson in bullying.  I described to NHL how Starscream took advantage of Bumblebee’s weakness, helped the people who hurt him, and taunted him to make him feel bad about himself.  (Of course, schoolyard bullying rarely involves blasters.)

NHL, however, dredged up the Karma talk from a few weeks back and pointed out that it applied here.  Impressed, I admitted that he was right.  Starscream could have done the right thing by helping Bumblebee (either right away or after he tracked down MECH’s headquarters).  Previous episodes have established that he can contact the Autobots (when he was in need of medical assistance).  His actions throughout the episode were one bad action after another, right down to shooting the T-Cog to spite Bumblebee.

For his bad actions, something bad happened to him: He lost his own T-Cog.  His description of Bumblebee as a pathetic failure who couldn’t achieve vehicle mode became him as he scampered away by foot.

I was extremely proud of NHL for remembering our lesson and for applying it so perfectly.

Disclaimer: The image of Starscream above is from Clement Soh‘s Flickr stream and is shared via a Creative Commons license.

What Is Real?

WhatIsRealBeing that we’re Jewish, I thought that we’d be mostly immune from having to deal with "Daddy is X real" kind of questions.  Since we don’t celebrate Christmas or Easter, Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny are moot points.  We’re honest about the existence of these (though we encourage our kids not to burst the bubbles of other kids who believe).  They even know that characters from most of the shows they watch (e.g. Spider-Man, Optimus Prime) are fictional.  Sure, there’s the issue of the Tooth Fairy, but I figured that was it.

Imagine my shock, then, when NHL, JSL and I were watching a Muppet Show DVD and NHL asked me: "Dad, are the Muppets real?"  I was completely caught off-guard.  The realist in me wanted to say "No, they are pieces of fabric that people shove their hands into."   Meanwhile, the Disney lover in me wanted to say "Yes, they are.  Kermit and Miss Piggy live in a house just outside of Hollywood, California" so that he would hold onto the magic just a little bit more.

Composing myself, I decided to turn the question around.  I asked him if *HE* thought they were real.  He thought for a second and answered that they were real.  I decided to leave him with this as his answer.

This came up again when we went to see The Laurie Berkner Band perform at Proctors Theatre in Schenectady.  They asked me if Laurie Berkner was real.  When I said she was, they didn’t believe me.  They were convinced that Laurie was some made-up character from Jack’s Big Music Show.  When an actual person showed up on stage, they couldn’t believe it.  (It surprised me as they’ve seen TV kids singers on stage before.  Namely, the Wiggles.)

It should be interesting as they discover what is real and what isn’t.  I just hope that they realize that there can still be magic in characters even if they don’t really exist as you see them on the screen.

What do you tell your kids about the reality of fictional characters?

A Big Waste of Food

thrown_foodOn Sunday night, the boys were in bed and B and I were searching through the channels for something to watch.  We landed on Food Network where they were showing a special titled The Big Waste.  (If you missed it, it will air again on Saturday, January 14th at 4:00 pm Eastern/Pacific and Sunday, January 15th at 5:00 pm Eastern/Pacific.)

This show was a competition.  Two teams of chefs (Bobby Flay and Michael Symon versus Anne Burrell and Alex Guarnaschell) were competing to see who could make the best dishes for an audience.  So far, this sounds like many of the other competitions that Food Network has aired.  This show had a very interesting twist, though.  The competitors could only use food that would otherwise have been discarded.  Yes, they were essentially cooking with garbage.

Initially, you might wrinkle your nose in disgust.  You may picture Bobby Flay emerging from a dumpster with a half eaten pizza slice, discussing how – after he brushed off the flies – he would turn it into a wonderful appetizer.  It was nothing like this, however.

You see, Americans are very spoiled when it comes to food.  When we shop for tomatoes, we want the very best.  An otherwise edible tomato with a crack in its skin is tossed aside.  Peaches with blemishes on them are left on the ground to rot.  Lettuce is ignored because it isn’t picture-perfect.

It isn’t just the vegetables and fruits, either. Meats that aren’t the ever-desired center cuts are cast out.  Chickens with a broken wing are thrown away because people might think it means they are diseased (when the truth is that they are perfectly fine to eat).  Bagels left at the end of the day and pre-packaged foods with creeping expiration dates get the garbage bag treatment.

As the contestants gathered food, the amazement at their finds increased.  So did the disgust.  Perfectly good food was being thrown away every day.  While 1 in 4 children go to bed hungry, while people scrounge around wondering where their next meal will come from, mountains of food are being tossed in the trash.  The food recovered by the contestants was a mere drop in the bucket.

This show got me thinking about food waste by me.  I am not innocent of passing over produce because of minor blemishes.  I also wondered what my local grocery stores, bakeries, and other food shops did with their waste.  If the food is still good, albeit blemished or slightly older than customers tend to like, does the store toss it away?  Or do they donate it to a local food pantry/shelter/etc?

Thanks to this program, I plan on calling some local companies to see how they handle their food waste.  If they don’t donate it, I’m going to see if I can arrange for at least some of it to be donated.  I encourage everyone to do the same with companies in their area.

Have you seen the Food Network special?  How do you think you can help raise awareness about food waste?

Disclaimer: I wasn’t compensated in any way by Food Network for this post.  I simply wanted to share what I felt was a good program and an important issue.  The image above was created using two images from OpenClipArt.org.

Aloha Friday: Shows From Years Past

Not too long ago, I was given the opportunity to review Transformers Prime: Darkness Rising for Kailani over at An Island Life.  (There’s a giveaway for that too, so head on over and enter.)  My boys loved it as did I.  For me, it brought back a lot of memories of shows I loved growing up.  I was a huge Transformers fan and always would beg my parents for a new Transformer to add to my collection.  The only rival to Transformers was He-Man.  I still have some of my old Transformers packed away somewhere.

Besides Transformers, the boys have been re-discovering some gems from the past.  They’ve watched Spider-Man and His Amazing Friends on Roku via Netflix.  They don’t seem to get how cheesy it is and instead simply enjoy the superhero stories.  They’ve also watched Batman: The Animated Series and The Super Mario Bros Super Show.

It seems that some shows (or show concepts in the case of Transformers) don’t really age all that badly and kids don’t always need a flashy new show to be entertained.  Sometimes, an older show will entertain them just as much.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: Do you have a show that you grew up with that your kids enjoy watching?

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