Slumbering Inspiration

nicubunu_Emoticons_Sleeping_face"It came to me in a dream, and I forgot it in another dream." – Professor Hubert Farnsworth (Futurama)

I’ve had a few times when ideas came to me when I couldn’t write them down.  At one point, this might have been when I was out and about.  Of course, since the advent of texting (and, later, Smartphones), this isn’t a problem.  A quick text or e-mail to myself and I’m good to go.

Recently, ideas seem to come to me on the Jewish holidays.  You see, during certain holidays, I refrain from "working at my occupation."  I take this to mean that anything that I could use to do work for my job is off-limits.  I’m a web developer, so computers are no-nos as are pen and paper (could write down code/designs to type up later) and phones (could call in to discuss work issues).  (NOTE: I’ll carry a phone with me in case of emergencies, but it is set to vibrate and everyone knows not to call unless it is a matter of life or death.)

So what happens when I get an idea in the middle of a Jewish holiday?  That is, during a time when I can’t write it down, type it up, or use my smartphone to send a reminder to myself?  That’s when I’ve got to exercise that brain of mine to remember it myself.  Kind of like how people used to remember things before computers were all-but-grafted onto us.

A couple of nights ago, I had a weird dream.  In it, I had built a very popular Twitter application.  I was showing it to someone to demonstrate how it worked.  I’m going to leave off the "how it works" details for obvious reasons, but suffice it to say that my dream was quite descriptive.  When I woke up, I remembered it perfectly and realized that this was an application that I could actually develop.  One that people might use.

Of course, the past three days have been Jewish holidays.  (Shabbat followed by two days of Shavuot.)  Since I couldn’t record it in any other manner, I kept it in my mind up until the Jewish holiday ended.  Luckily, by then, it hadn’t been forgotten.  If anything, it’s taken root and expanded.

Now if I only had more free time to work on Twitter applications.

Have you ever had an idea come to you in a dream?

Disclaimer: The "sleeping face" image above comes from OpenClipArt.org.

Aloha Friday: Social Media Time

The Disney Social Media Moms Celebration was filled with memorable moments.  During one of these, a speaker asked if anyone wasn’t on Pinterest.  I tentatively raised my hand, but could see nobody else doing the same.  Was I the only one who wasn’t yet on Pinterest?  Or were the other people just not brave enough to admit it?

The thing is, Pinterest just doesn’t interest me.  Neither does Facebook, which I’m also not on.  I used to use Google+, but have even scaled that back to the point that I haven’t checked in there in about a month.  There are a ton of social media platforms out there, but I’m not on a lot of them.  Why?  Simple.  I just don’t have the time.

I work a day job from 8am to 5pm (approximately).  Then, I come home, make dinner, spend some time with the boys and get them to bed.  After this, I have about three hours to blog, catch up on social media, read online article/blogs, do some programming, etc.  I sometimes use social media during my work day, but I keep that to a minimum.  (Mainly, I’ll check in during lunch.  Work, of course, always comes first.)

Given my limited "social media time", I feel I have two options.  I can use Facebook, Pinterest, Google+, Twitter, etc.  However, if I split my time in so many directions, I’ll likely be unable to use any of them effectively.  In fact, I’d likely get burned out from trying to keep up with it all and would begin to neglect other responsibilities.

Alternatively, I can ignore many popular social media networks and focus my efforts on the ones that suit me best.  In this case: Blogging and Twitter.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: How many social media networks do you use?

P.S. If you haven’t already, try out my Twitter applications: FollowerHQ and Rout.


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the linky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #140

Speaking Anonymously

Freedom_Of_SpeechYesterday, an article came to my attention.  It would seem that two New York State legislators, Assemblyman Jim Conte and Senator Thomas O’Mara came out with a bill that they claimed would fight cyberbullying.  How did it intend to do this?  Simple: Anonymous speech would be banned from the Internet.  Problem solved and two thumbs up, right?  After all, I’m a big opponent of bullying and a big fan of stopping bullying.  But before we schedule the parade in their honor, perhaps we should look a little closer at the bill, it’s unintended consequences, and some possibly intended side effects.

The bill wouldn’t exactly prohibit someone from posting something anonymously.  Instead, sites that allowed anonymous comments (and that includes sites that use pseudonyms… you know, like "TechyDad") would be required to clearly post a phone number or e-mail address where people could demand anonymous comments be removed.  If a comment complaint is received, the site owner would then need to verify the anonymous commenter’s name, home address, and IP Address.  The commenter would be forced to choose: Reveal their real name to the world or have the comment be taken down.  (If you want to read the exact text of the bill, it is right here.)

Right away, problems arise.  First of all, there is no requirement on the complainer to reveal their real name to the world.  So this becomes a sort of "heckler’s veto."  Anyone that doesn’t like someone’s comment, someone’s opinion on an issue, or even just doesn’t like someone for any reason whatsoever would be able to submit a takedown notice without revealing who they were.

Secondly, there is no guide as to which comments are vulnerable to takedown requests.  In fact, the bill explicitly states that site operators must "upon request shall remove any comments posted on his or her web site by an anonymous poster."  So any comment would be at risk.  If someone didn’t like where a debate on a site was veering, they could request takedown of the opposing argument’s comments.  Or, perhaps, if someone took a dislike to a blogger, they could demand that they take down every comment unless they first verified each person’s home address.

That home address verification is the third item.  Exactly how would one do this?  Take your typical WordPress blog, like this one, as an example.  To comment here, you need to type in a name.  Not your real name, mind you.  It could be a pseudonym, "Anonymous", a nickname, a completely made up name, or anything that enters into your head.  You could also enter an e-mail address (which doesn’t display on posts but is saved in the database) and a URL, but these aren’t required.  In addition, all commenters automatically have their IP Address recorded.

If I’m told to take down the comment by "ProThisTopic12345", and the person didn’t leave an e-mail address, how do I contact them?  If I required e-mail addresses, I’d get a rash of comments from "x@x.com."  If I required and verified e-mail addresses, fewer people would comment in the first place.

Let’s assume that I’m requiring and verifying commenters’ e-mail addresses.  Now, someone tells me to remove the comment from "ProThisTopic12345."  I e-mail them and they e-mail back that their name is "Herman Jones" and they live at "26 Mockin’ Byrd Street" in the town of "Munsey, NY."  How do I know they’re telling me the truth?  I could look them up in an online phone listing, but what if they are unlisted.  Would I need to pay a service to verify names/addresses for me?  And what if it is valid?  How do I know that "ProThisTopic12345" really *IS* "Herman Jones"?  Maybe Herman is the commenter’s neighbor or co-worker.

The reaction to this would be the removal of online comment abilities in New York.  Of course, the Internet is bigger than just New York.  How would this law apply to someone whose site is hosted in New Jersey with the site administrator living in Connecticut?  Even if the commenter was in New York, the person complaining would have a tough time getting the comment removed.  All this would do would be to negatively impact New York businesses and free speech.

And there’s the final nail in this bill’s coffin.  Freedom of Speech.  The First Amendment states (in part) that "Congress shall make no law … abridging the freedom of speech."  Though it states "Congress", the courts have repeatedly held that this applies to state governments also.  This bill would definitely have a chilling effect on free speech.

One can’t even argue that free speech doesn’t include anonymous speech.  The United States has a rich history of anonymous speech.  When the debate was raging as to whether or not to ratify the United States Constitution, a series of essays were published supporting it.  These essays, collectively known as The Federalist Papers, were published anonymously.  (Though later on it was figured out that they were penned by Alexander Hamilton, James Madison, and John Jay.)  If anonymous speech was good enough for the Founding Fathers, how could we declare it to be wrong?

If this bill is so wrong, then why pass it?  It was billed as fighting cyberbullying, but somehow I doubt that it would combat that effectively.  Wired states that this bill would combat cyberbullying and "baseless political attacks."  Perhaps that last item is the real reason.  Right now, anyone can post an attack on a politician and the politician can’t prevent this.  Some politicians, with an inflated sense of personal power and a thin skin, might have decided that they needed to pass a law to protect themselves from these citizens.  Of course, a "protect us from the people" law would never fly, so they tacked on "cyberbullying" to fool people who want to stop bullying.

Don’t be fooled.  This is a horrible bill that would be impossible to enforce, at best, and would chill online speech, at worst.  With luck, it will die without ever being passed.  Still, there’s no reason to sit around waiting for it to die on its own.  If you are a New York State resident, you should contact your state representatives to let them know about this bill and why you oppose it.  If you don’t live in New York, make sure your state legislators know that you value your right to free speech online.

Disclaimer: The "Freedom of Speech" image above comes from OpenClipArt.org.

The #DisneySMMoms Report: Speakers and Lessons

Note: To see all of my posts on DisneySMMoms 2012, go here.

After we ate breakfast on Friday morning, it was time to learn a few lessons in social media.  First, we moved to another room.  This wasn’t your standard conference room.  After all, it’s not every room that has a castle for a stage and inspirational stained glass scattered along the walls.

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There were also these great centerpieces.

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Power strips.  Just the thing for the on-the-go blogger with limited battery life.

Once we got settled, the speakers started coming out.

Meg Crofton, President of Walt Disney World Resort let us know that Disney World isn’t in the "vacation" business or the "theme park" business.  They are in the experience business.  They want every moment from the minute you get on the Magical Express to the minute you leave Disney World for the last time to be filled with magic.  (And they succeed many times over.)

Maryellen Hooper came on stage at various times both to introduce the next speaker and to induce fits of laughter in the crowd.  Yes, though her jokes were mom-based, this dad laughed just as much as the moms in the audience.

Kelly Ripa and Katie Couric were there as well.  Ok, they had pre-recorded messages for us, but that was good enough for us.

Amy Jo Martin talked to us about balancing work and family time.  She was told to choose two out of Work, Family, and Self.  She chose all three and, though she failed many times, she never gave up.

Ramon DeLeon came onstage with incredible energy.  If he ever gives up the pizza gig, he could probably sell DeLeon Energy Drinks!  He gave us example after example of how social media can be used to positively impact people’s lives.  He also reminded us that a problem that is solved offline isn’t solved if it was described online.  Others will see the "unsolved" problem and assume nothing’s been done.  It’s not so much the bad experiences that will turn people away, he told us, but bad reactions (or no reaction) top bad experiences.

Gary Buchanan came onstage dressed as a Jedi to tell us about Star Wars weekends at Disney World.  One year, I really want to head to Disney World during this wonderfully geeky time.  Unfortunately, Gary also insulted a certain Sith.

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He was ok, but I don’t think he’ll be insulting Darth again.

After lunch (photos coming Wednesday), we came back to mice on our table.  The good kind, of course.

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As we settled in, the speakers just kept on coming.  First up was Peter Shankman.  He told us not to wait for others’ approvals, to face our fears, leave our comfort zone, and to be like a weed.  The first is a lesson that I learned long ago when I dealt with bullying.  The second and third I took to heart and led to my Face My Fears Disney Challenge.  (More on that in a later post.)  The last item pointed out that weeds are masters of survival.  They’ve learned how to do everything except grow a rose (aka "be like everyone else").

Lisa Druxman quoted Henry Ford and said "whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right."  She told us to break big projects up into smaller pieces.  Most importantly, she told us that there will often be a gremlin sitting on our shoulder telling us that we can’t do something.  When that happens, we need to knock it off our shoulder and continue on.

I realized that my gremlin is High School Me.  No matter what I do, I maintain a mental self-image of myself as a shy high-school kid who is terrified of how people will negatively react to me.  High School Me couldn’t do half of the things that I do today and so, mentally, I’ll keep telling myself that I really can’t do these things either.  I’m going to start knocking High School Me off my shoulder.  He may have been me once, but he isn’t anymore and hasn’t been for awhile.

Finally, Chris Brogan reminded us of how important it is to have your site be mobile friendly.  As a new owner of a smartphone, I’m finding a lot of sites that aren’t mobile friendly.  Nothing’s more frustrating than loading up a site on your phone and being presenting with itty bitty text that can’t be resized to be readable or obscured text because the developers assumed that everyone only uses huge monitors.  (He also asked who isn’t on Pinterest and I was the only one to raise my hand.  I think that’s another post right there.)

As the sessions ended, it was time to head out to Animal Kingdom.  DInosaurs awaited us there.

Disclaimer: We paid for our own trip to Disney World to attend the Disney Social Media Moms Celebration. Though we were given an incredible deal from Disney, they never asked us to blog about this event. All opinions expressed above are my own.

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