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Fast Fading Biking Fun Time

P1360390 With summer a fast-fading memory and winter’s icy temperatures making a couple of pre-launch appearances, outside play time is getting rarer and rarer.  So, when temperatures the past two days were in the 50’s, we took advantage of this “heat wave” and allowed the kids to play out of doors.

Saturday, we went to B’s parents’ house and, while B and her mother went shopping for B’s birthday present, NHL, JSL and I took to the sidewalks.  JSL had his big wheel bike and NHL had his scooter.  NHL tired of the scooter quickly, as it wound up just slowing him down, and decided to hoof it instead.  He would “race” JSL up and down the block with me trailing not too far behind.

One time, as we reached the end of the block, I stopped and called for them to turn around.  NHL kept going which spurred JSL on to follow him.  I called a second time and then, seeing that they were starting to get close to the main road without signs of stopping, went into a full-on run to catch up.  NHL stopped but it looked like JSL wasn’t going to.  As I screamed for JSL to stop (and as someone crossing the street turned around and looked poised to leap into action), NHL quickly jumped in front of his brother’s bike, grabbed the handlebars and forced it to a stop.  I was so proud of him!  (And, needless to say, I didn’t let JSL get too far from me the rest of the weekend as I don’t think I can trust him to stop when I tell him to.)

P1360369After some play, NHL decided to head indoors to play Nintendo DS.  (B’s father was inside so he was supervised.)  JSL wasn’t ready to go in, so we walked around the block twice.  Well, I walked, JSL biked.  His little feet pushed those pedals up and down with such expertise that you wouldn’t know that he just figured it out this Spring.

  On the way, we met a nice lady and her dog.  JSL loves dogs, but hates being around them up close.  It might have to do with a dog that knocked him over once.  We (meaning I) chatted with her for a bit, but soon JSL was feeling the urge to bike again and called on me to hurry it up.

On Sunday, the boys and I went food shopping, letting B get some quiet time to do laundry and write articles  for KidsFunPlaza.  When we got home, B had left to do some more shopping with her mother.  After putting the groceries away, we decided to go outside and do some more bike riding.

P1360359After going up and down the block a couple of times, the boys started to repeat their “too close to the main road” act from the previous day.  This time I was better prepared and stopped them.  NHL said that he wanted to go around the block (usually, he doesn’t want to do this).  I told him that he needed to ask me first before simply biking off towards a main road.  We went around the block two times again.

P1360372As we hit the halfway mark of the second around-the-block trip, I got notification from B that she was headed home.  The race was on.  Would we make it home first?  Or would B, driven by her parents beat us.  The kids pedaled furiously, driven to increase their speed in the hopes of seeing Nana and Papa.  (Oh.  And Mom too.)  As we rounded the final corner and began to go up our street, I looked back and recognized the car making the turn.  It was a race down our street between a car, a bike, a big wheeler and my two feet.  The car won, followed closely by NHL on his bike.  Trailing behind was a fast pedaling JSL and then, bringing up the rear, was me.

By now, NHL was tired and wanted to go inside, but JSL didn’t want to stop.  So B went inside with NHL and I let JSL pedal up and down the block a couple more times before it was time to head indoors.  Sadly, I don’t think we’ll get to repeat these biking excursions too much longer, but there is hope for the Spring.  It looks like JSL might be able to inherit NHL’s bike (graduating from a big wheeler to a training wheel-enabled two wheeler) and NHL might be able to move into a bigger bike (perhaps without training wheels).  Maybe, if we do this, then B and I can get bikes too and we can all go on family biking trips.  I used to love biking when I was a kid and would love to be able to take the boys and bike around our neighborhood.

P.S.  By the way, that neat “blurred background” effect on the first photo?  Done by following JSL with the camera and matching his speed.  No photo editing programs involved!  I tried that with NHL but didn’t get results as nice as with JSL.  I think that’s because NHL goes faster and so it is harder to match his speed just right.

Aloha Friday: Like Parent, Like Child

For better or worse, NHL often seems like a mini-TechyDad.  Like me, he loves math and tries to work it into anything he does.  He’s also a natural when it comes to computers.  On the down side, he seems to either focus in on what he wants to do to the exclusion of everything (and everyone) around him or his brain goes a mile a minute and he has trouble staying on task.

NHL does have a big advantage I never had, though.  Whereas I had to come up with strategies to deal with my shortcomings on my own, NHL has me as a resource.  Having personally experienced many of the things he’s going through, I can be there for him and teach him what I’ve learned along the way.

My Aloha Friday question for today is: Does your child strongly resemble (physically, personality, or otherwise) you or your spouse?


Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the McLinky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #63

Math Rider: An NHL Video Review

When I reviewed Math Rider, I planned on getting NHL to review it as well.  After all, he’s the one who played the game.  I can say it’s great and wonderful and all but if your child doesn’t really like it or want to play it, then there’s not much point, is there?  So I sat down with NHL last night, loaded up Math Rider and let him play while doing a video review.  Here’s the result:

 

So there you have it.  NHL’s thoughts are “I think everybody should have this game.”  I’m pretty sure that would be a two thumbs up if his thumbs (and the rest of his fingers) weren’t typing out math answers.

Disclaimer: Math Rider provided me with a complimentary copy of the game for review in conjunction with the Family Review Network.  This video post, however, was my own idea.  All of the opinions expressed above (both in the text and video) are mine and NHL’s.

Math Rider: An NHL Video Review

When I reviewed Math Rider, I planned on getting NHL to review it as well.  After all, he’s the one who played the game.  I can say it’s great and wonderful and all but if your child doesn’t really like it or want to play it, then there’s not much point, is there?  So I sat down with NHL last night, loaded up Math Rider and let him play while doing a video review.  Here’s the result:

 

So there you have it.  NHL’s thoughts are “I think everybody should have this game.”  I’m pretty sure that would be a two thumbs up if his thumbs (and the rest of his fingers) weren’t typing out math answers.

Disclaimer: Math Rider provided me with a complimentary copy of the game for review in conjunction with the Family Review Network.  This video post, however, was my own idea.  All of the opinions expressed above (both in the text and video) are mine and NHL’s.

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